Before you can have a great conversation with your spouse, you need to know what KIND of a conversation it is.
That’s the start.
Is it logistics?
Are we making plans for a vacation?
Are we talking about our kids’ behavior and our parenting roles in that (or lack of alignment with it)?
Are we talking about who needs to do what when?
Are we talking about the mean thing you said to me last night and why I’m still hurt?
Is it me telling you how horrible my day has been?
Or is it one of those big picture, dreamy “What are your hopes and dreams” kinds of conversations, hot tea or chocolate in hand?
You need to know this.
It’s a must.
That’s where it starts.
Like I said – It’s not so secret.
But it’s underutilized all the same.
If you are reading this and saying to yourself — I don’t know that we ever have had any of these conversations successfully – without both of us retrieving into our own corners of the world, or being outright mad at each other for days on end, no relief in sight — I’m here for you.
Find a time on my calendar and let’s talk.
There’s a cure.
There’s a way to do this differently.
And I know how.
You and your husband, you and your wife – can find a way out of this never-ending loop of trying and failing.
Because you know what happens when you keep trying and failing over and over and over again?
There comes a point where you stop the trying.
And then it’s game over.
We both know that’s not your desire.
So, let’s talk – you and I at one time.
Me and your husband/wife at another.
You each get 30 uninterrupted minutes with me to start.
Better conversations are in sight – and it starts with this one.
Talk soon.
Here’s the link again.
