You don’t find time for your marriage. You make it. And sometimes that means deciding what you’re going to stop doing. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard someone say, “We just don’t have time.” No time for date nights. No time to sit down and talk. No time to spend together without […]
Is it selfish to put your own needs before your spouse’s? How much alone time is healthy in a marriage? And what are you supposed to do when you and your spouse need completely different things? These are questions I hear from married couples all the time. And here’s what I want you […]
You’re Both Doing So Much. So Why Do You Both Feel Unappreciated? I have couples come into my office all the time who feel completely unseen in their marriage. Not necessarily unseen as human beings. Unseen in their efforts. Their contributions. The hundreds of things they do every week to keep their […]
The Secret to Starting Real Forgiveness Forgiveness isn’t a feeling. It’s an act of consciousness, a decision to stop letting pain drive the story—your story. The moment that you realize that is the moment forgiveness actually begins. Change Your Marriage Today If you’ve been consuming all the right content—even […]
Marriage Strategy That Works Here’s a marriage strategy that few people still admit still works. One of the most powerful things you can do for your husband, for your wife, is simply hear them out. Listen to them. Let them say the things that they need to say. When was the […]
Summer’s Almost Over. Ask This. It’s July, and summer’s flying by. Am I right? I want you to do a summer check-in. Have you paused yet to do one? Here’s what I want you to ask your spouse. What have we done together so far that we’ve loved? What do we […]
Why I Do This in My Marriage Why do I wear two rings on both of my hands? Not because I’m so fancy. In my culture, you wear your wedding band on your right hand. So, I have this one here. I don’t… whatever. It doesn’t even matter. So, I wear […]
The Marriage Trap Here’s an uncomfortable truth for your marriage. “I can’t” keeps you stuck in your comfort zone. We love to say “I can’t” when we’re overwhelmed. When we’re tired. Or even a little bit lazy. But the truth is, you can. The question that you really want to ask […]
Does Your Partner Win? Are you accidentally choosing your pattern over your partner? Here’s the thing. You’re not wrong for wanting your routine, your friends, your bike rides. Nothing is wrong with any of that. But if your spouse feels ignored, it’s worth paying attention to. Forget what’s easy and choose […]
There Are Two Kinds of Couples… There are two kinds of couples. One kind holds on to the hurt. They replay the fight over and over. They build a whole story around the betrayal, the disrespect, the silence—all of it. And it just sits there between them like a wall. They […]
