Generosity breeds generosity
You know what’s really hard to do?
To offer someone the coat off your back when you’re standing there in your undergarments.
Your spouse or anyone else, really.
When you’re cold – freezing even, handing that warm piece of clothing is impossible.
Or close to it.
And you don’t have it go give.
Adopt generosity in your marriage as a rule of thumb.
It starts with this:
“I want to be generous with my wife/my husband.”
It ends with:
“I am so generous and giving it’s not even funny.
It’s become the way we are.
I give freely to them.
They give freely to me.
It’s the greatest thing.”
You two can get on that train.
Right now.
You don’t have to wait until something changes.
No reason to wait until they do something first.
You just get to do that.
For each other.
There is no other stipulation.
No other rule.
Just give.
Show up with a generous heart.
Tell them that they are that person for you.
Your person.
That that’s never changed.
And you are so glad that you get to be generous with them.
In all of these ways.
So yeah – You can get on that train.
Right now.
It’s a really fun ride.
PS: The best news yet?
It’s contagious.
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