You don’t NEED to hire me.

Here’s why you might WANT to.

Mary sent me this months after we’ve initially spoken on the phone.

(And Mary isn’t the only one who’s sent such an email.)

“We didn’t prioritize this.

However, the question you asked me when we first spoke continues to stick out to me….

The question of what’s gonna happen if we don’t do anything.

What is the worst that can happen if we take no action and my answer was that we are in the same place.

Well, we are in the same place.

But I would argue that we are in a much worse position.

And we would like your help.”

That is exactly why you might WANT to hire me.

So that things don’t keep getting worse by the minute.

Because every day that things between you two don’t get better, you keep increasing the pile of reasons and evidence of why this isn’t gonna work.

Even when that is actually NOT what you want.

You want it to work.

But when you do nothing – The disconnect keeps growing.

The pile of resentment grows.

The list of “You-failed-me-again-in-this-way-this-morning” grows.

Nothing good comes from that.

THAT – that right there – is why you might WANT to hire me.

And I would love to help.

One other thing, very much related.

You don’t need to hire ME.

You see what I’m saying?

Obviously.

You can hire someone else.

If you’ve found someone else who has given you extraordinary amounts of value for your marriage – hire them.

Whether you need help yelling less between the two of you while your kids are around OR

You want to stop doing that perpetual procrastination thing that I was talking about when it comes to your marriage.

If you’ve gotten an immense ROI by just following and implementing their daily marriage tips – hire them.

If they’ve been super helpful with their insights during their last Communications Masterclass or what have you – hire them.

Whatever you do, get the help you need, and do it as soon as humanly possible.

Your marriage is what’s on the line.

Remember?