Are you finding yourself more anxious lately than you normally have been?
I’ve noticed with my couples and also with my anxiety coaching clients that they are having a harder time right now.
I noticed a trend.
As we dug in a little and did a bit of investigating, inevitably, it comes out that they are reading or watching the news first thing in the morning.
We all know by now, and have seen the research, of how terrible even being on social media is first thing in the morning—when you do it the moment that you open your eyes.
And I’d put watching the news right up there with it—or even above it.
Some of them also admit that they have the TV going in the background, sort of as background music., you end up feeding your brain with all this “yuck” all day long.
And the last one is reading or watching the news right before going to bed.
And then, being faced with not being able to fall asleep, having your mind racing like crazy, or waking up in the middle of the night for what seems like no apparent reason.
If this is you—at a minimum, stop watching and/or reading the news first thing in the morning or last thing before you go to bed.
Better yet, depending on how bothersome or crippling your anxiety has been, give yourself a week or two, or a month even.
Take the news out of the picture altogether and see for yourself the difference that it will make.
And if you’re sitting there going, “But I can’t possibly just not watch the news. I can’t not know what’s happening, right? How would I go that long detoxing from this and not having a clue what’s happening in the world?”
Here’s what I’ve done.
I made a pact—make a pact with your husband, make a pact with a best friend or a family member to say: “Hey, if there’s anything—this is what I am doing—I’m trying to do this—if you find that there is something MAJOR, life-changing happening in the world that I HAVE to know about, would you let me know, please?”
And they will.
So, give that a try and see for yourself how transformative this can be.