But I’m NOT! Have you ever said in your marriage, “But I’m not doing anything wrong”? Here’s the thing. It’s not about wrong or right, per se. You can work out. You can see your friends. And you can even call your mom. But if your spouse feels hurt for some […]
Do THIS, Not THAT What’s wrong with you? Why are you so mad? Have you ever noticed the difference in what the response is to those questions versus coming to your spouse and saying, “Are you all right? Can I help with something? Are you okay?” There’s a ton of difference […]
Summer’s Almost Over. Ask This. It’s July, and summer’s flying by. Am I right? I want you to do a summer check-in. Have you paused yet to do one? Here’s what I want you to ask your spouse. What have we done together so far that we’ve loved? What do we […]
Why I Do This in My Marriage Why do I wear two rings on both of my hands? Not because I’m so fancy. In my culture, you wear your wedding band on your right hand. So, I have this one here. I don’t… whatever. It doesn’t even matter. So, I wear […]
The Marriage Trap Here’s an uncomfortable truth for your marriage. “I can’t” keeps you stuck in your comfort zone. We love to say “I can’t” when we’re overwhelmed. When we’re tired. Or even a little bit lazy. But the truth is, you can. The question that you really want to ask […]
Marriage Needs More Than Love You’ve heard of the five love languages, I bet— even if you don’t know what they are exactly and couldn’t tell me what yours is or what your spouse’s are. But you’ve heard that’s a thing with married couples, or couples in general even. Yeah. But […]
Does Your Partner Win? Are you accidentally choosing your pattern over your partner? Here’s the thing. You’re not wrong for wanting your routine, your friends, your bike rides. Nothing is wrong with any of that. But if your spouse feels ignored, it’s worth paying attention to. Forget what’s easy and choose […]
There Are Two Kinds of Couples… There are two kinds of couples. One kind holds on to the hurt. They replay the fight over and over. They build a whole story around the betrayal, the disrespect, the silence—all of it. And it just sits there between them like a wall. They […]
Lose the Marriage Junk Food How would you like to drop the emotional weight that’s dragging your marriage down? Here’s how to do that. Look for the obvious indulgences. Which one is it for you? Is it the nightly scroll on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok instead of finding your husband or […]
Missing the POINT Let’s flip the script on Father’s Day. Because for most people, most couples, even, they’re doing it all wrong. And no, I’m not saying that you need to spend a lot of money or go big. I’m saying that there’s a difference between a day with a gift […]
