This MIGHT just be THE MOST unrecognized BREAKER OF TRUST. Did you know this? You are not who you say are. You are not what you say you’re going to do but never ACTUALLY do. Soooo… The million dollar question is: Are YOU doing this? Meaning: Where you’re saying you’re gonna SAY something, […]
Apples & Oranges — Here’s What It Sounds Like Someone will say to me: “But I don’t have this problem with ANYONE else in my life. Nobody at work ever complains that I am hard to talk to. I’m a great communicator. I do the best presentations, I know how to talk […]
Sometimes I remind THEM. My clients, that is. Sometimes THEY remind ME – OR they remind EACH OTHER in front of ME. It happened again two days ago. The intensity with which he said it: “I know – It’s supposed to be this way.” Though – And this is the tricky piece – […]
This is a letter from me to you, with love. There’s no denying it. The numbers don’t lie. Picture this: It’s Friday night & you are at a dinner party. Six couples total present. Hear this. Every other couple in the room will end up in divorce. Every other couple around the table […]
You tell me – You think that you need to do something Big. Something extravagant that will get you out of this hole that you are in with your spouse. That you need to find one big fix. One big thing. This is true for most of you – You don’t believe me […]
Oh, for SURE. You can ABSOLUTELY make a dent in your marriage if only one of you gets help. I wholeheartedly believe that. If only one of you works on the relationship. It only takes one in the couple to change the direction of where you are going — to change the dance, […]
So, you tell me – The Thing YOU Say So, you tell me that you are SOOO DIFFERENT. That you are on the opposite sides of the spectrum and have no idea why you ended up together. That you don’t even like the same things. Or so it seems. And that the […]
You read that title and likely immediately thought to yourself – “Wait, what? I thought there were only benefits. Now you are saying there is bad news?” Yes – but it’s not the kind of ‘bad’ you are thinking. And that’s alright. So – The bad news — here goes. The […]
Everyone has it figured out. It’s time. It’s time to bust another myth. This has been on my mind and it’s such a big misconception that we have GOT to talk about it. Here goes: Everyone else has it all figured out. (HA!) They must, right? They aren’t talking about it. Nobody is. […]
Let me get right to it. We get married because we want someone to speak to those parts of us that feel weak, shattered, broken. We get married because we are looking for someone to take us in and do the repair. Because secretly, we want the other person to take care of […]
