“Why is not everyone doing this?
Everybody should do that.
This was great.
I so appreciate it. ”
These are the words she said as we were wrapping up the 30 min initial consultation on the phone.
Do what, you ask?
Do a phone consult with the potential clients before bringing them in for a session, making sure that I’m a good fit for them.
And she’s not the first one to ever bring this up.
I have a feeling she won’t be the last either.
I’ve been doing these for years.
Offering these complimentary phone consultations to each one of the spouses.
They’ve been invaluable.
Truth be told, I don’t know why everyone isn’t doing that.
But I know one thing.
I know I can’t be a good fit for everyone who reaches out to work with me.
But that’s not a problem.
If you found me, and we talk, and I turn out NOT to be able to help you with whatever it is that you need help with —
Or you are looking for an approach that I know nothing about —
Or I just end up not being a fit on a human-to-human level because I talk funny, or I remind you of your mother (or worse even, your mother-in-law) (yes, that actually happened once!) —
I am happy to refer you to one of my skilled colleagues I trust.
No problem at all.
For me, the thing about the initial phone consultations is that you two, you and your spouse, are able to find – and GET – the help that you need, and if that means that you end up working with someone else, that is just fine.
Not a problem at all.
The mission I’m on – still the same.
So, if you need help with your marriage, reach out and we’ll go from there.
You can find a time to talk with me here: SCHEDULE a Complimentary Phone Consultation NOW
