My Husband Doesn’t WANT to Do the Work You asked. Of course, I can answer the question. Is it better for the two of you both to be working on your relationship, working on your marriage? Yes, absolutely. But it doesn’t take both of you to do the work at the […]
Spouse Refuses To Tell Me If you make a conscious decision to not share something with your spouse—a particular worry or frustration—and as a result, they don’t respond to it, you cannot hold them liable for that decision of yours. If they don’t ever find out because you never said anything, you cannot then […]
Loving Each Other on BDs This is the way you’ve been doing. So that’s what’s going to be in the video. Cuz you have a big birthday tomorrow. Big 8-0 for my mother-in-law. What do you think? Do you think she’s going to like these? Here’s all the other accessories that […]
Marriage Strategy That Works Here’s a marriage strategy that few people still admit still works. One of the most powerful things you can do for your husband, for your wife, is simply hear them out. Listen to them. Let them say the things that they need to say. When was the […]
Do YOU Have People Like This in YOUR Life/MARRIAGE? If you want to protect your marriage, check your circle. If you’re fighting for your marriage, surround yourselves with people who believe in fighting for theirs as well, just like you do. It’s not about avoiding your divorced friends. That’s not what […]
She’s Lazy, Crazy & Ridiculous! But I am just telling them the truth. Does that sound familiar? Here’s the thing. The truth isn’t an excuse for name-calling. Good communication means separating the action from the person. I just talked about it with a couple a week ago. You’re lazy. You’re crazy. […]
Your Marriage NEEDS This Question Your marriage needs this question answered. Can you or will you? Yes, you can wake up 30 minutes early to have coffee with your spouse. You also can schedule a birthday reminder for your spouse. Comes on the same day every year. Did you know that? […]
But I’m NOT! Have you ever said in your marriage, “But I’m not doing anything wrong”? Here’s the thing. It’s not about wrong or right, per se. You can work out. You can see your friends. And you can even call your mom. But if your spouse feels hurt for some […]
Do THIS, Not THAT What’s wrong with you? Why are you so mad? Have you ever noticed the difference in what the response is to those questions versus coming to your spouse and saying, “Are you all right? Can I help with something? Are you okay?” There’s a ton of difference […]
Summer’s Almost Over. Ask This. It’s July, and summer’s flying by. Am I right? I want you to do a summer check-in. Have you paused yet to do one? Here’s what I want you to ask your spouse. What have we done together so far that we’ve loved? What do we […]
