PSA for Married Couples Have you two talked about what’s happening for Thanksgiving yet? Ehm…no? Do it today! I mean it. Is Your Husband Like This?! You know what he apologized for? He apologized and said, “I’m so sorry, but they tried making you the ginger shots, and […]
My Wife Is Mad at Me… The moment that you’re tempted to believe or to think that your wife is mad at you, just walk over there and ask her the question, “Are you mad at me?” And find out. And then trust her response. Incoming: Holiday Fear? Is […]
The Biggest Mistake Couples Make About Forgiveness The biggest mistake couples make when it comes to forgiveness is thinking that it’s the same thing as forgetting. I don’t know how this is still a thing, but I hear it over and over. It’s not. Forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending that it didn’t […]
The Secret to Starting Real Forgiveness Forgiveness isn’t a feeling. It’s an act of consciousness, a decision to stop letting pain drive the story—your story. The moment that you realize that is the moment forgiveness actually begins. Change Your Marriage Today If you’ve been consuming all the right content—even […]
Why is Your Marriage Falling Apart? Why is your marriage falling apart? Do you know why? I had dinner with my husband a couple of weeks back, and I told him that I was working on this video and that there were eight reasons why your marriage might be falling apart. […]
Marriage Truth Bomb Here’s your marriage truth bomb for today. The one who listens, understands. Are you good at understanding? Are you good at listening? No. Do you need to get better at listening? Ask your spouse. The one who listens, understands. Let that sink in. Creating Peace in Marriage […]
My Husband Doesn’t WANT to Do the Work You asked. Of course, I can answer the question. Is it better for the two of you both to be working on your relationship, working on your marriage? Yes, absolutely. But it doesn’t take both of you to do the work at the […]
Spouse Refuses To Tell Me If you make a conscious decision to not share something with your spouse—a particular worry or frustration—and as a result, they don’t respond to it, you cannot hold them liable for that decision of yours. If they don’t ever find out because you never said anything, you cannot then […]
Do YOU Have People Like This in YOUR Life/MARRIAGE? If you want to protect your marriage, check your circle. If you’re fighting for your marriage, surround yourselves with people who believe in fighting for theirs as well, just like you do. It’s not about avoiding your divorced friends. That’s not what […]
She’s Lazy, Crazy & Ridiculous! But I am just telling them the truth. Does that sound familiar? Here’s the thing. The truth isn’t an excuse for name-calling. Good communication means separating the action from the person. I just talked about it with a couple a week ago. You’re lazy. You’re crazy. […]
