Why is Your Marriage Falling Apart? Why is your marriage falling apart? Do you know why? I had dinner with my husband a couple of weeks back, and I told him that I was working on this video and that there were eight reasons why your marriage might be falling apart. […]
Marriage Truth Bomb Here’s your marriage truth bomb for today. The one who listens, understands. Are you good at understanding? Are you good at listening? No. Do you need to get better at listening? Ask your spouse. The one who listens, understands. Let that sink in. Creating Peace in Marriage […]
My Husband Doesn’t WANT to Do the Work You asked. Of course, I can answer the question. Is it better for the two of you both to be working on your relationship, working on your marriage? Yes, absolutely. But it doesn’t take both of you to do the work at the […]
Spouse Refuses To Tell Me If you make a conscious decision to not share something with your spouse—a particular worry or frustration—and as a result, they don’t respond to it, you cannot hold them liable for that decision of yours. If they don’t ever find out because you never said anything, you cannot then […]
Do YOU Have People Like This in YOUR Life/MARRIAGE? If you want to protect your marriage, check your circle. If you’re fighting for your marriage, surround yourselves with people who believe in fighting for theirs as well, just like you do. It’s not about avoiding your divorced friends. That’s not what […]
She’s Lazy, Crazy & Ridiculous! But I am just telling them the truth. Does that sound familiar? Here’s the thing. The truth isn’t an excuse for name-calling. Good communication means separating the action from the person. I just talked about it with a couple a week ago. You’re lazy. You’re crazy. […]
Your Marriage NEEDS This Question Your marriage needs this question answered. Can you or will you? Yes, you can wake up 30 minutes early to have coffee with your spouse. You also can schedule a birthday reminder for your spouse. Comes on the same day every year. Did you know that? […]
But I’m NOT! Have you ever said in your marriage, “But I’m not doing anything wrong”? Here’s the thing. It’s not about wrong or right, per se. You can work out. You can see your friends. And you can even call your mom. But if your spouse feels hurt for some […]
Do THIS, Not THAT What’s wrong with you? Why are you so mad? Have you ever noticed the difference in what the response is to those questions versus coming to your spouse and saying, “Are you all right? Can I help with something? Are you okay?” There’s a ton of difference […]
Summer’s Almost Over. Ask This. It’s July, and summer’s flying by. Am I right? I want you to do a summer check-in. Have you paused yet to do one? Here’s what I want you to ask your spouse. What have we done together so far that we’ve loved? What do we […]
