The Secret to Starting Real Forgiveness Forgiveness isn’t a feeling. It’s an act of consciousness, a decision to stop letting pain drive the story—your story. The moment that you realize that is the moment forgiveness actually begins. Change Your Marriage Today If you’ve been consuming all the right content—even […]
Marriage Strategy That Works Here’s a marriage strategy that few people still admit still works. One of the most powerful things you can do for your husband, for your wife, is simply hear them out. Listen to them. Let them say the things that they need to say. When was the […]
Summer’s Almost Over. Ask This. It’s July, and summer’s flying by. Am I right? I want you to do a summer check-in. Have you paused yet to do one? Here’s what I want you to ask your spouse. What have we done together so far that we’ve loved? What do we […]
Why I Do This in My Marriage Why do I wear two rings on both of my hands? Not because I’m so fancy. In my culture, you wear your wedding band on your right hand. So, I have this one here. I don’t… whatever. It doesn’t even matter. So, I wear […]
The Marriage Trap Here’s an uncomfortable truth for your marriage. “I can’t” keeps you stuck in your comfort zone. We love to say “I can’t” when we’re overwhelmed. When we’re tired. Or even a little bit lazy. But the truth is, you can. The question that you really want to ask […]
Does Your Partner Win? Are you accidentally choosing your pattern over your partner? Here’s the thing. You’re not wrong for wanting your routine, your friends, your bike rides. Nothing is wrong with any of that. But if your spouse feels ignored, it’s worth paying attention to. Forget what’s easy and choose […]
There Are Two Kinds of Couples… There are two kinds of couples. One kind holds on to the hurt. They replay the fight over and over. They build a whole story around the betrayal, the disrespect, the silence—all of it. And it just sits there between them like a wall. They […]
Lose the Marriage Junk Food How would you like to drop the emotional weight that’s dragging your marriage down? Here’s how to do that. Look for the obvious indulgences. Which one is it for you? Is it the nightly scroll on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok instead of finding your husband or […]
Better Marriages Everywhere If you’re ever finding yourself tempted to text your spouse during the day, did you ever regret it afterward? Here’s the rubric that I go by. One that I’ve used myself in my 18-year-old marriage. Yes, our marriage is an adult now. And one that I’ve used with […]
Don’t Waste Those Precious Nights It’s Friday night. Are you too struggling, like so many of us married folk struggle, with looking through Netflix and just not being able to find what you want to watch? If you’re looking for meaningful ways to connect, click the video. Your Marriage – THIS […]
