So, you tell me – The Thing YOU Say So, you tell me that you are SOOO DIFFERENT. That you are on the opposite sides of the spectrum and have no idea why you ended up together. That you don’t even like the same things. Or so it seems. And that the […]
Did you know? There is one thing you need to be willing to own and say before you can make any progress on your marriage. With your spouse, right now. Before anything can change. The million dollar question, of course – You know what it is?? There one time a while back […]
“Why is not everyone doing this? Everybody should do that. This was great. I so appreciate it. ” These are the words she said as we were wrapping up the 30 min initial consultation on the phone. Do what, you ask? Do a phone consult with the potential clients before bringing them in […]
“Why isn’t everyone doing this? Everybody should do that. This was great. I so appreciate it. ” These are the words she said as we were wrapping up the 30 min initial consultation on the phone. Do what, you ask? Do a phone consult with the potential clients before bringing them in for […]
As far as compliments in my directions – ones that come from clients – some might call this one odd. That’s alright. These four words. They landed it my lap, just like that. I am calling it real. Heartfelt and raw. It didn’t happen during the intake. Not even in session two. Somehow […]
Bringing Two Worlds Under One Roof – What it was THEN “It’s not like we didn’t know. When we first met, that was part of what made it so exciting. We’d even brag about it to our family and friends, not even kidding. He grew up on one continent. I grew up […]
“We don’t fight about the big stuff”, they said. We see eye to eye on the big stuff, we do so well.” Little Stuff, Big Stuff – The BIG Stuff First Like buying a van for the family when expecting. Agreeing on the color for the bathroom remodel. Or buying a […]
I’m not one to beg. But today, I gotta do this. Your Teeth – Do NOT wait You know how when you notice that your tooth hurts just a tiny little bit, when you eat something cold or hot? Or when you bite on something funny? It’s a little annoying, maybe […]
The Calm Before the Storm — The Eerie Experience Itself Out on a walk earlier this week, I noticed something that made me think of you. They forecasted storms for later that evening. The air stood still. It was quiet to the point of eerie. Almost like every soul had gotten the memo […]
Today we are talking about why your “No Offense” comment never really offends me & what YOU can do about it. I think it’s safe to say that most people generally don’t talk about their therapy experience with anyone. Less so even when they realize that there is a psychotherapist sitting in the […]
