We rarely talk about this. But it needs to be talked about. Because, in your marriage as much as anywhere else in your life, your capacity to suck is what propels you forward (Or keeps you stuck in one place.) How do you mean? Great question – I would love to tell you. […]
What I hear – Both Stubborn – Your Story So, you tell me that you are both stubborn. It usually comes up right after you say that you are SO very different. (No need to go back to that – I already wrote about that here.) The very first time we talk on the […]
Oh, for SURE. You can ABSOLUTELY make a dent in your marriage if only one of you gets help. I wholeheartedly believe that. If only one of you works on the relationship. It only takes one in the couple to change the direction of where you are going — to change the dance, […]
Every so often, someone will say this thing which leaves me in utter shock. Worse even, they say it with an ever-so-slight hint of an apology. Apology! Let me explain. Utter Shock – The How & the When My first question, when clients schedule their call is always is some form […]
If you’ve been around a while, you know I love what I do. How much I see every day as a privilege, not to be taken lightly. People opening their hearts – That’s a big deal. Client Wins Here’s one of my all-time-most-favorite things. Hands down. Couples telling me about what […]
So, you tell me – The Thing YOU Say So, you tell me that you are SOOO DIFFERENT. That you are on the opposite sides of the spectrum and have no idea why you ended up together. That you don’t even like the same things. Or so it seems. And that the […]
Did you know? There is one thing you need to be willing to own and say before you can make any progress on your marriage. With your spouse, right now. Before anything can change. The million dollar question, of course – You know what it is?? There one time a while back […]
They said a professor shared this with them in college and it stuck. I know how that works because I have some of those in my own repertoire. Things I remember people saying to me decades ago. I love these little truth bombs. So. Much. Particularly when they come from the couples I work with. […]
Remember how I talked about the hidden camera in my office? (And no, I still don’t have one.) You might not – it’s been a while. But I discussed something where it felt like ALL my couples were dealing with ONE THING that week. Almost as if they were passing notes in the […]
Let me start by saying that I don’t ever get bored in my work. Today, I’m sharing a snippet called – What made me laugh. ‘Cause we laugh in here. A couple times a day at least. Of course we get work done too. But it’s not always so heavy. Rulebook – […]
