Every so often, someone will say this thing which leaves me in utter shock. Worse even, they say it with an ever-so-slight hint of an apology. Apology! Let me explain. Utter Shock – The How & the When My first question, when clients schedule their call is always is some form […]
If you’ve been around a while, you know I love what I do. How much I see every day as a privilege, not to be taken lightly. People opening their hearts – That’s a big deal. Client Wins Here’s one of my all-time-most-favorite things. Hands down. Couples telling me about what […]
So, you tell me – The Thing YOU Say So, you tell me that you are SOOO DIFFERENT. That you are on the opposite sides of the spectrum and have no idea why you ended up together. That you don’t even like the same things. Or so it seems. And that the […]
Did you know? There is one thing you need to be willing to own and say before you can make any progress on your marriage. With your spouse, right now. Before anything can change. The million dollar question, of course – You know what it is?? There one time a while back […]
They said a professor shared this with them in college and it stuck. I know how that works because I have some of those in my own repertoire. Things I remember people saying to me decades ago. I love these little truth bombs. So. Much. Particularly when they come from the couples I work with. […]
Remember how I talked about the hidden camera in my office? (And no, I still don’t have one.) You might not – it’s been a while. But I discussed something where it felt like ALL my couples were dealing with ONE THING that week. Almost as if they were passing notes in the […]
Let me start by saying that I don’t ever get bored in my work. Today, I’m sharing a snippet called – What made me laugh. ‘Cause we laugh in here. A couple times a day at least. Of course we get work done too. But it’s not always so heavy. Rulebook – […]
“Why is not everyone doing this? Everybody should do that. This was great. I so appreciate it. ” These are the words she said as we were wrapping up the 30 min initial consultation on the phone. Do what, you ask? Do a phone consult with the potential clients before bringing them in […]
No, don’t worry. You’re not a unicorn. I mean – you aren’t the only one who has been asked by their spouse to open up to them in more ways than one. To up your emotional intimacy game. Maybe you’ve been there, thinking to yourself – I do the best I can. I […]
Today, what I want to do, and you can see it in the title, I’m starting this new series I’m calling: “Don’t be that guy” So this is for you if you’re the gentlemen in our midst. You might want to pay attention. There are so many ways I see this happening. Today […]
