Spouse Refuses To Tell Me If you make a conscious decision to not share something with your spouse—a particular worry or frustration—and as a result, they don’t respond to it, you cannot hold them liable for that decision of yours. If they don’t ever find out because you never said anything, you cannot then […]
Loving Each Other on BDs This is the way you’ve been doing. So that’s what’s going to be in the video. Cuz you have a big birthday tomorrow. Big 8-0 for my mother-in-law. What do you think? Do you think she’s going to like these? Here’s all the other accessories that […]
Silence That’s DEADLY I had a couple in here last week who said, “We don’t really fight. We just stopped talking for a while.” I even had someone say, “I don’t remember what we used to talk about for so long all those years ago when we would spend whole days […]
MARRIAGE Laughs (Daily Dose) Are you a married woman like me? Please help me out. Something came up yesterday during a session with a couple in my office. Then I brought it home to my husband of 18 years—to see if my hubby was as clueless as this husband that […]
Turns out I have a co-conspirator at the Minnesota Department of Transportation. Who knew? As a driver, I have a bunch of habits that (sometimes) my kids laugh at – like talking to other drivers while I’m on the road. But nothing irks me more than when people don’t use blinkers. I’m fine […]
Having done this for so long – in my mind, everybody knows. But then I run into someone, this week it was this older couple who had absolutely no idea. And of course, I’m the one who gets to point this out to them. Because staying in the not knowing – in the […]
Let me start by saying that I don’t ever get bored in my work. Today, I’m sharing a snippet called – What made me laugh. ‘Cause we laugh in here. A couple times a day at least. Of course we get work done too. But it’s not always so heavy. Rulebook – […]
Every time I go to Trader Joe’s or Target to get snacks for the waiting room at my office (yes, I have food for my people), I feel like I need to explain myself. Like I need to tell someone what is going on when this is ALL that’s in my basket. No […]
Alright you, my extroverted friends. I see you, too. I haven’t forgotten about y’all. We already talked about how the introverted soul can survive this, now we’ve come to your rescue, too – And I know you need help so let’s dive into it. Survival Guide for the Extroverted Soul: Step #1 I […]
Backing out of our driveway, leaving for work mid morning, I notice the neighbor standing out in front of his garage, waving at me. I wave back, smile – we are friendly that way where I live- and say hi . We’ve mastered the art of lip-reading with this one. As I am continuing to […]
