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Showing Up For Your Marriage

    Showing up for Your Marriage – This Is What It All Starts with    How are you showing up for your marriage on this random Wednesday in March? What did you do to take care of your body today? Your mind? How are you feeding your heart, your soul? If you leave your […]

Do Your Spouse a Favor & Stop Lying to Yourself Already

    For years, (don’t ask how many) I would tell myself that I can’t drink smoothies in the winter time because it made me cold. You know, green drinks. Given that I’d use frozen fruit or cold juice or coconut water from the fridge, my body would just end up shivering for hours afterwards. […]

The Oddest Compliment to Date

    As far as compliments in my directions – ones that come from clients – some might call this one odd. That’s alright. These four words. They landed it my lap, just like that. I am calling it real. Heartfelt and raw. It didn’t happen during the intake. Not even in session two. Somehow […]

Bringing Two Worlds Under One Roof

    Bringing Two Worlds Under One Roof – What it was THEN    “It’s not like we didn’t know. When we first met, that was part of what made it so exciting. We’d even brag about it to our family and friends, not even kidding. He grew up on one continent. I grew up […]

The Moment to Pause – Relationship Tip of the Day

    I wanted to bring this gem to you today. “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Courtesy of Victor Frankl   Read it. Then read it again. Let it sink in. Truly. It’s […]

The Snack Story – Confessions of a Marriage Expert

    Every time I go to Trader Joe’s or Target to get snacks for the waiting room at my office (yes, I have food for my people), I feel like I need to explain myself. Like I need to tell someone what is going on when this is ALL that’s in my basket. No […]

Little Stuff vs. Big Stuff

    “We don’t fight about the big stuff”, they said. We see eye to eye on the big stuff, we do so well.”   Little Stuff, Big Stuff – The BIG Stuff First   Like buying a van for the family when expecting. Agreeing on the color for the bathroom remodel. Or buying a […]

Do NOT wait — I beg you

    I’m not one to beg. But today, I gotta do this.   Your Teeth – Do NOT wait   You know how when you notice that your tooth hurts just a tiny little bit, when you eat something cold or hot? Or when you bite on something funny? It’s a little annoying, maybe […]

How Happy ARE You?

    How happy are you? It’s the million dollar question, right? Y’all know I love tea. As I was sipping my daily morning dose of it today, here’s what I read on my Yogi tea bag. “Give happiness and you will end up happy.” Sounds nice, right? From where I am sitting, I clearly […]

Your Calm Before The Storm

  The Calm Before the Storm — The Eerie Experience Itself   Out on a walk earlier this week, I noticed something that made me think of you. They forecasted storms for later that evening. The air stood still. It was quiet to the point of eerie. Almost like every soul had gotten the memo […]

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